Mental Health Challenge Day 21- What are you good at?
When you live with a mental illness it is very easy to list the thing that you are not good at rather than the things you excel in. When I was going to counseling I was often given homework to do and one of my assignments was to list the things that I was good at. This was so that I could physically see that I was not what my mind kept telling me I was and that was a failure. Now, 2 years from when I completed the assignment the first time, I will list the things that I know that I am good at.
1. I am a hard worker. Though I have had problems at the places where I have been employed no one can say that I was not good at what I did. I take on my roles and I do my best to fulfill it as well as excel. I would begin to believe that it was always something that I did wrong to bring chaos to the office but I refuse to let anyone make me feel like I’m a disappointment when they are just insecure because they feel threatened by me.
2. I have mentioned this to you before but I pride myself on my loyalty. I have learned many lessons when it comes to friendships and relationships nd my loyalty to many has come to amend. For those who are still standing with me, for those I consider friends and family, they know they can count on me for anything just like I can count on them. I’m sure that I am not done learning lessons on relationships but I am content now for the most part.
3. I like to think that I am good at solving problems (problems that at not my own of course) When someone is in a bind or looking for an answer I like yo give myself credit for being able to provide a reasonable direction in guidance to them. I’m not saying that I have all the answers to everything but I do think that when I am on the outside looking in that I think things through and logically.
So now it’s your turn. Find a piece of paper and a pencil and list at least 3 things that you at good at. Do not feel like you are giving yourself too much credit. You deserve recognition for the positive things that you do and you should learn to embrace that within yourself.